I should have continued with “What To Do When A Man Takes You For Granted” but I got several ‘S.O.S messages’ from ladies who are worried about the behaviour of the men in their lives. I figured others might also want to know so I came up with WHAT TO DO WHEN A MAN IS TESTING YOU. But first, you've got to ascertain that it is a test.
Disclaimer: Results will vary, and you should not use this information as a substitute for help from a licensed professional. These are the opinions of people (including the author’s); nothing is cast in stone.
LET'S GO!
Don’t blame us, we are men. We want what we want – control, attention, and we also want a feeling of importance. And sometimes, we just need to test the waters to see if we have lost our grip. So, we test you. (Did I hear you say ‘what kind of a stupid test is that’?) Well, you may not like it, but that’s what we do. Not all the time anyway. Some of the men I interviewed revealed that they can’t do without a ‘testing’ quarrel at least once in a month. However, when we get our MATCH in a woman, we withdraw, try some other tactics, and if the woman remains not easily broken, we give up.
But we get bored by those women who react emotionally to our test, though we may like it initially. Below are some of our “testing tools”:
1. Deliberate withdrawal in calling you:
(Some men won’t forgive me for this). Sometimes, when you don’t hear from us, we might just been testing you. ‘Crazy’ women won’t nag; they will only call to find out if there’s trouble that we couldn't call. If the ‘test’ continues after then, they give us a taste of our own medicine. The ‘nice’ women will fret, nag, call, call some more, get mad, and call once again. You see the difference?
2. Some girl that won’t let us rest:
Sometimes, we deliberately talk about some woman somewhere who is doting on us – real or imaginary. We want to let you know that someone else wants this ‘product’ that we have given you on a platter (Shakara!). This is equally a jealousy stimulator. The ‘good’ girl will get jealous – her emotional reactions will give her away. But for the ‘crazy’ girl, she might be jealous, but she won’t show it. She has a story to tell too. She tells him of the guy who bought her a gold necklace the previous week that she’s yet to accept from him. She tells her date that she might accept the gift the following day. When we hear something like this, we get scared; first, having us beaten to our own game, and second, we think we had better call off the bluff before you run away with another man. See the difference?
…TO BE CONTINUED
P.S: All these findings and more from my interviews with men and women are documented in a special dating secrets report, an eBook for women titled: “Why Men Dump ‘Nice’ Ladies…” Part 2 and 3
P.P.S: Someone once posted here that I’m telling you all these just because I want to sell my eBooks. Well, I ignored him; this is for ladies, and if someone is not sick, then s/he might not need a doctor. If you don’t want to make the mistakes of others, what is wrong in simply reading an eBook to avoid these mistakes? If the frog in front falls into a ditch, the others take caution. We only live once. A word is enough for the wise. If you want your free eBook, send “I want the eBook” to unclelucky123@gmail.com. To get part two and three, send me an email too
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