Don’t ever let a man waste many years of your life all in the name of dating. There are a few tried, tested secrets that will tell you whether or not to continue with a guy, on the first day you hang out with him, and/or during the first 90 days of the relationship. Don’t you want to save yourself the trouble of wasting about 2 to 6 years of your life with the wrong man instead of just kicking him out on the first date or within the first 90 days?  Read on!

"Ladies don't let a man devalue you. Sometime we get impatient on waiting on the right one because a perfect man does not exist, but don't settle for a man that don't deserve you and you settle out of loneliness. Men always say to me you are beautiful, single, no kids and financially stable, why don't you have a man.

Some blog readers have asked me to republish this post. Especially for the benefit of new followers. I listened to them and therefore edited it to 'please the eyes.' So, here we go!!!

“O woman! Lovely woman! Nature made thee to temper man: we had been brutes without you.” Thomas Otway

This is the continuation of the article: "What Never to Do/Say on Your First Date……And What to Do (During The Testing Period)."

...And What to Do (During The Testing Period).

It is often said that the road to a man’s heart is through the stomach. Others agree that   the road of sex is faster and even smoother. I don’t disagree with you; after all, there are many great men who will sneak out of the bedroom into the Boy’s quarters just to do some sex gymnastics with the housemaid.

This is the concluding part of 'how a smart lady should handle her telephone conversations with her "toaster" especially during the early days of the dating period.

Now, here is Pt.3

Part 2 begins from here:

2. ‘Where are you?’ before ‘How are you?’ and other nagging questions:

While growing up, I used to hear my mum advice people that “how are you” is the ‘elder brother’ to “where are you.” Smart, crazy women know this and each time they get on the phone with you, they are interested in the ‘how’, not necessarily in the ‘where’, unless it is necessary.

WHAT IS THE PROBATIONARY PERIOD? 

(Note: After reading this, ensure you also read 'Talking Him Out Of Your Life' in PART 3 of the eBook "Why Men Dump Nice Ladies...")

Don’t get it twisted: you apply for a job, and you get a call for an interview. You get hired after the interview and guess what? You are placed on probation for two or three months, depending on the company. During this period, you are not entitled to the full salary or any other benefits.

“O woman! Lovely woman! Nature made thee to temper man: we had been brutes without you.” Thomas Otway