This is the concluding part of the topic we started last week. It began like this: “Don’t blame us, we are men. We want what we want – control, attention, and we also want a feeling of importance. And sometimes, we just need to test the waters to see if we have lost our grip. So, we test you…” If you missed it, click here to read it.
Now, let’s finish this and go to something else.
Disclaimer: Results will vary, and you should not use this information as a substitute for help from a licensed professional. These are the opinions of people (including the author’s); nothing is cast in stone.
1. My ex wants me badly:
There’s always an ex-girlfriend who was a ‘perfect devil’ but still wants us back. “She called me yesterday,” he would say, “asking for my new house address.” The ‘nice’ girl is already jealous. But not the ‘crazy’ girl. Her bag of ‘counter missiles’ is not empty yet.
She would tell the guy point-blank, “I’m not interested in your ex stories, so please let’s enjoy the drink.” Or, “I don’t know why my ex-boyfriend is still pestering me. I promised to see him tomorrow anyway; looks like we still have some unfinished business.”
The truth is, that guy in front of you is wishing he never brought up that issue. Spot the difference?
2. Looking at another woman in your presence:
We might even go ahead and make some comments regarding the woman’s breasts or butt. ‘Nice’ girls will get mad. ‘Crazy’ girls won’t even pay attention. If we don’t stop, they will equally be looking out for the cutest guy in the room to admire. They might even make some comments: “Oh, look at those Italian shoes that guy is wearing. So lovely.” I tell you, this action will beat us back to our senses; it looks like our plans are being thwarted by your indifference. Notice the difference?
3. The indirect attention-seeker:
He wants your attention and his ego won’t just let him say it. So, he throws some annoying words at you, or dig up something that had been resolved in time past, or pick a quarrel from a little domestic mistake. The ‘crazy’ woman might just calmly say, “You just don’t seem to be in the right mood. There’s some food in the freezer. I’m going to take some fresh air. Maybe by the time I return, you would have calmed down.” And off she goes. I bet you, he may never try that style next time. That’s a ‘crazy’ woman.
NB: The list goes on. Keep it in mind that when we test you sometimes, it is probably because we want the relationship to go to the next level. We just want to be sure, before we take you to mama. (I can’t vouch for the bad guys though!). But on your own part, you have to be sure whether it is a test or outright disrespect. How do you tell? Watch out for the next post titled:
HOW TO TELL WHETHER IT IS TEST OR DISRESPECT.
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P.S: The eBook “Why Men Dump ‘Nice’ Ladies…” (Part Two & Three) has these topics and more. If you are interested, send me an email or call 08074416344. Bbpin 272ed832
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