I have discovered that the problem with women is they don't know how to pick a man. If you pick the wrong man, it is not his fault; you picked him. If a man is BAD and you picked him, that's your damn fault. Yes, you can't change a man, but most men will change ONLY for a certain kind of woman. Let me show you how to be that woman.
But first let’s hear the home truth:
Every man can change, and every man will change; but there's only one kind of woman that we are going to change for. If your man is not making sacrifices for you; if he’s not going out of his way for you; it’s because you are not 'the' woman. You have allowed him to keep misbehaving and taking you for granted and he won’t stop. And you're still with him. What the fuck!
Every man can change, and every man will change; but there's only one kind of woman that we are going to change for. If your man is not making sacrifices for you; if he’s not going out of his way for you; it’s because you are not 'the' woman. You have allowed him to keep misbehaving and taking you for granted and he won’t stop. And you're still with him. What the fuck!
The problem you have is you're trying to "manage" him until Mr Right comes but you've forgotten that it's possible that Mr Right has been watching you and each time he wants to make a move, he sees you with Mr Wrong. He may never come back! (Especially when your Mr Wrong is a married man)
You keep having lunch with him (and sometimes, he's a married man, and you're still wondering why Mr Right is not coming: he's been watching you!)
I have discovered also that so many women are going into relationships with no standards and no requirements: they'll say; "let's see what happens" and once men understand that thinking of yours, we run the show: we make happen what we want to make happen. Chikena!
Most women are so afraid these days that they might scare a guy away with standards and requirements that they go into relationship letting their guards down. Dear lady, the good news is that a man who really knows your worth and truly wants you, will keep "hunting" you until he gets you.
And when it comes to sex, some women also make some stupid mistakes. Even companies won't pay you the full salary until you've spent some time (most times, three months) on the job, YET you give men your 'treasure' after JUST two weeks of' toasting' you! And you wonder why he's gone! He has got everything without forming the habit of respecting you. Sad!
I went into town and I asked a few questions. That’s why I came up with this blog. I have also come up with a three-part eBook titled: Why Men Dump ‘Nice’ Ladies And Hunt After ‘Crazy’ Ones. My definition of NICE and CRAZY is quite different from the literal definition. In part two of the eBook, I researched THE SELECTION PROCESS and THE PROBATIONARY PERIOD (How long must you wait before you hand out your "treasure" to a guy?). I also discovered the FOUR questions you MUST ask a man on the FIRST date. Yes! The very first time out with a guy! And the two questions you must ask during the probationary period. So, I'd advise you submit your email address and get an eBook for free as well as sign up for the free newsletters and updates.
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