It is often said that the road to a man’s heart is through the stomach. Others agree that the road of sex is faster and even smoother. I don’t disagree with you; after all, there are many great men who will sneak out of the bedroom into the Boy’s quarters just to do some sex gymnastics with the housemaid. But there is another way – a royal way to a man’s heart. That’s the road of genuine appreciation; expressed gratitude, even over the minutest of our actions.
Whether it is from the first date, the place he took you to, even when he calls you on the phone, appreciate him.
Whether it was his duties or he just helped out with the kids, appreciate him.
When he fixes your car tyre or paints the kitchen, thank him profusely.
When he takes you to a restaurant, call or text him to say you really liked the place and tell him thank you.
Remember that the best way to say thank you is to mention the thought behind the acts. I mean, when he buys you lunch, you don’t just thank him for the food, you thank him for knowing it was the time when you were really hungry and needed to eat.
When he pays the school fees of the kids, you don’t just say “after all, it is his duty.” A super woman would say, “I really appreciate what you’ve done for our kids. I’m proud of you.”
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